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(Yes, Even “Self-Reassurance” Counts) If you’ve ever thought, “I just need someone to tell me I’m okay,” or “Once I get reassurance, I’ll finally be able to move on,” you’re not alone. For people with OCD and anxiety, reassurance seeking feels logical, comforting, and responsible. Unfortunately… reassurance seeking OCD is one of the biggest reasons […]

January 13, 2026

Reassurance Seeking OCD: Why Asking for Certainty Is Keeping You Stuck

Compulsions, OCD and Anxiety Basics, Recovery Tips