If your brain won’t stop having a meeting about your thoughts, this one’s for you.
One of the biggest struggles in OCD recovery isn’t the intrusive thoughts themselves. It’s what happens after: the endless rumination, mental compulsions, and thought loops that turn one spark into a full-blown anxiety spiral.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why can’t I stop thinking about this?” or “Why doesn’t my ERP therapy seem to work?”, chances are, rumination is the culprit.
Let’s break down how intrusive thoughts become spirals, why rumination keeps you stuck, and the practical tools you can use to stop the cycle before it takes over.
Everyone has intrusive thoughts AKA quick, random brain blips like:
For people without OCD or anxiety, those thoughts pass by.
But with OCD rumination, that thought doesn’t leave. Your brain latches on, trying to solve it, replay it, or analyze it until you feel certain.
This turns into:
Intrusive thought = spark.
Rumination = gasoline.
Here’s why people get stuck: rumination feels like problem-solving. It feels like you’re “working it out.”
But the truth? Rumination is just another OCD compulsion. It might be mental instead of physical, but it fuels the OCD cycle the same way hand-washing or lock-checking does.
👉 Key reminder: Rumination will never give you certainty. It only strengthens the spiral and keeps intrusive thoughts coming back.
Maybe you’ve been doing ERP therapy (Exposure and Response Prevention). Awesome, that’s the gold-standard treatment for OCD. (PSST: New to this? You can learn more about it with my OCD and Anxiety Cycle Masterclass – click here to learn more).
But here’s the catch: if you resist the hand-wash, resist the reassurance-seeking, but then spend the next 30 minutes ruminating in your head… you’ve cancelled out the exposure.
ERP works because it teaches your brain: “I can tolerate uncertainty without compulsions.”
If rumination slips in, your brain never learns.
👉 Think of it like doing a push-up, then lying flat on the floor. The effort doesn’t count if you undo it right after.
The best time to interrupt rumination is right at the start—within the first 30 seconds of the thought loop. Once you’re 20 minutes deep in mental compulsions, it’s way harder to pull out.
Here’s my Catch–Label–Leave script:
Catch. Notice when you’ve slipped into replay mode.
Label. Call it out: “This is rumination. This is the OCD cycle.”
Leave. Redirect. Don’t argue with the thought.. just shift your attention, even for 30 seconds.
It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be a break in the cycle.
OCD is sneaky, and it will try to turn even good tools into compulsions.
👉 Success in OCD recovery = staying out of the rumination loop, not eliminating anxiety.
If rumination and mental compulsions are stealing your time, I created something for you: Stop the Spiral.
It’s a free training that teaches you how to break intrusive thought loops, stop anxiety spirals, and interrupt the OCD cycle in real time.
Inside, you’ll learn:
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