Experiencing Anxiety as an Anxiety Therapist

November 23, 2022

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I can’t tell you how many times people have told me that because I’m an anxiety therapist, I shouldn’t be anxious. Uh, yes. But I am human, and emotions are really complicated things! Hello? It’s not like you become a therapist and instantly have mastery over your emotional self. But I digress.

The fact of the matter is that I’ve always had a tendency to be a little anxious. When I was a kid, I remember getting a stomach ache every morning before school. Looking back, I now know that was most likely anxiety. Even now, I still have days where I walk into work – and my heart is beating fast. It used to be so bad that I’d break out in hives. It. Was. Awful.

Stand your ground to anxiety as a therapist

But guess what? I always stood my ground in those meetings and I never, ever, ever, backed out. No matter how scary any interaction was – I always did it. And that’s what it takes, every freaking day. Even when I was in elementary school, I would raise my hand and introduce myself first. I might’ve been young and scared, but I knew even then that I could do hard things. 

As an adult, and especially as a therapist, I have so many more skills. And I still have to show up and kick anxiety’s ass every day. When I feel anxious and frenzied, I make a point to sit down and catch my breath. I accepted support the other day at work when, normally, this would have made me anxious. Forging ahead and trying to take things one step at a time is where I try to live. Sometimes, you gotta go through your day with a little anxiety. You do it, anyways. You make “doing it, anyways” a lifestyle. 

The mindset to overcome anxiety as a therapist

Now, I know it’s not always easy for people to just “do it” – but that is kind of the mindset that overcoming anxiety requires. It also helps having some anxiety myself, because I can see where these individuals are coming from. I can vouche for the fact that it helps to challenge yourself. 

So if you’re ever feeling like a fraud, because you’re an anxiety therapist but you experience anxiety, t’s OKAY. You’re human and these qualities make you all the more legitimate and relatable. And if you’re a person going to a therapist, thinking they must be perfect..? No. We aren’t robots – we’re human, too, and we can probably relate to you more than you think. 

No better feeling

At the end of the day, I don’t think there’s a better feeling than overcoming fear. I don’t think I’ll ever get sick of that feeling of accomplishment. Because I have a tendency towards anxiety and have to challenge myself so often, I know this feeling well. And I believe that makes me one bad ass of a therapist.

Keep doing all the hard things. I believe in you all so much.


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