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If you’re anything like me, you might have a bit of a love-hate relationship with fear. Even though I’m a therapist who specializes in anxiety, I’ve always found fear fascinating. As a kid, I used to dream about being part of the horror movie world, and today, I still think there’s something to be learned […]

October 30, 2024

#202 – The Monster in Your Mind: Why Running from Fear Makes It Worse

OCD and Anxiety Basics, Recovery Tips

If you’re someone who struggles with anxiety or OCD, chances are you’ve spent a lot of time trying to feel in control. The idea of uncertainty—of not knowing what’s going to happen or being unsure of outcomes—can feel terrifying. To say the least! Your mind might race with “what if” thoughts, constantly trying to predict […]

Embracing Uncertainty: How to Let Go of the Need for Control in Anxiety and OCD Recovery

October 29, 2024

OCD and Anxiety Basics, Recovery Tips