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welcome to the all the hard things blog

If you’ve ever had a thought pop into your head and immediately thought, “What the hell was that?” – welcome. You’re in the right place. Intrusive thoughts are one of the most misunderstood parts of OCD and anxiety. They’re scary, unwanted, random, and wildly convincing. And for a lot of people, the moment an intrusive […]

January 20, 2026

Intrusive Thoughts 101: Why They Happen (and Why Fighting Them Makes Everything Worse)

Compulsions, OCD and Anxiety Basics, Recovery Tips

If you’re someone who struggles with anxiety or OCD, chances are you’ve spent a lot of time trying to feel in control. The idea of uncertainty—of not knowing what’s going to happen or being unsure of outcomes—can feel terrifying. To say the least! Your mind might race with “what if” thoughts, constantly trying to predict […]

Embracing Uncertainty: How to Let Go of the Need for Control in Anxiety and OCD Recovery

October 29, 2024

OCD and Anxiety Basics, Recovery Tips