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We all have those days. The ones where everything feels off, your patience is gone, your anxiety is high, and even the smallest tasks feel heavy. Maybe you’re exhausted, maybe your thoughts are spiraling, or maybe you’re just done. But instead of offering ourselves understanding, most of us pile on guilt. We think we should […]

April 15, 2025

How to Give Yourself Grace on the Hard Days (Without Letting Guilt Take Over)

Affirmations, OCD and Anxiety Basics, Recovery Tips

You’ve probably seen them before—those short, punchy phrases printed on sticky notes or tucked into journals. Maybe you’ve even rolled your eyes a little. But here’s the thing: those little reminders can have a big impact. As someone who works every day with people battling OCD, anxiety, and intrusive thoughts—and as someone who’s walked that […]

Why Little Reminders Matter: How Positive Affirmations Can Change Your Daily Mindset

April 1, 2025

Affirmations, OCD and Anxiety Basics, Recovery Tips